For me it's like riding a wooden rollercoaster that has potholes. There isnt a speedbumb she hasn't tried to ramp, I mean, I can't think of what else she would be trying to do.
I've done about 120 on sportsman's road after the part that curves left then right on the straight away going to the intersection where the DNR office is. Multiple times.
Now I find myself having to speed up to hit the legal limit. Lol!
The whole what do you want, know what do you want between couples. It wears me out and I'm done with it.
For now on I do what I want and she can go along or not.